fix(ops): switch pm2 to standalone server + fix wholesale_settings query

Three problems were silently breaking the prod Tuxedo redesign and
the offline DB error swallowed all visibility into them:

1. `next start` against `output: "standalone"` is unsupported. Next.js
   prints "next start does not work with output: standalone" and
   silently disables the image optimizer — every `/_next/image?url=...`
   returned "url parameter is not allowed". pm2 was previously
   started as `pm2 start npm -- start -- -p 3100`. Switched to
   `node /home/tyler/route-commerce/scripts/start-standalone.cjs`.

2. The standalone server reads `.next/static/` relative to itself, so
   deploy must `cp -r .next/static .next/standalone/.next/static` on
   every sync. Without this, every `_next/static/chunks/*.js` returns
   404 and the page hydration dies. Added to the deploy workflow.

3. bash's `set -a; . ./.env` truncates DATABASE_URL at the `&` in
   `&channel_binding=require`, so the standalone server boots with
   empty DB env. `getBrandSettingsPublic` then caught the empty-pool
   error and returned `{success:false, error:'Failed to fetch brand settings'}`,
   so `state.heroImageUrl` stayed null and the hero poster never
   rendered. The new `scripts/start-standalone.cjs` parses .env in
   Node (which handles `&` correctly) and exec's the server with the
   loaded env.

4. `getBrandSettingsPublic` queried `ws.wholesale_enabled`, which
   no longer exists in `wholesale_settings`. The schema migration
   renamed it to `online_payment_enabled`. Switched the column
   reference and added a console.error log so future drift surfaces
   instead of being swallowed by the empty catch.

Plus `next.config.ts` had `hostname: "s3.crispygoat.com"` added
under `images.remotePatterns` so the optimizer accepts MinIO URLs.

next.config.ts

@@ -34,6 +34,12 @@ const nextConfig: NextConfig = {
         protocol: "https",
         hostname: "picsum.photos",
       },
+      {
+        // Brand media hosted on the crispygoat MinIO bucket
+        // (e.g. s3.crispygoat.com/videos/wp-import/...)
+        protocol: "https",
+        hostname: "s3.crispygoat.com",
+      },
     ],
     formats: ["image/avif", "image/webp"],
     deviceSizes: [640, 750, 828, 1080, 1200, 1920, 2048, 3840],